If you can't freely go to your boyfriend's house without calling, there is no relationship - Anita Joseph

"Today brought an interesting story to my ears. A friend faced a breakup simply because she arrived at her boyfriend's place unannounced. His justification? 'Don't encroach on my personal space.' Quite a reaction, isn't it? When she sought my counsel, I didn't mince words. 'Listen,' I said, 'if you find yourself having to ring up your man every single time you wish to see him at his place, then, in reality, you're in a relationship with yourself. It's high time you ponder on this.' I wrapped up our conversation with a bit of wit, 'As we say, use your tongue to count your teeth. And oh, by the way, a joyous Christmas to you!'"